Writer and Advocate for Women

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“My mission in life is not merely to survive, but to thrive; and to do so with some passion, some compassion, some humor, and some style” Maya Angelou

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"My mission in life is not merely to survive, but to thrive; and to do so with some passion, some compassion, some humor, and some style"    Maya Angelou   



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Sunday, June 8, 2014

Globe Trotting with Mallory and Clara

Shelter Island, NY

Sunday Funday!!!! The sun is glistening above the water wine glasses are filled with chilled Rose and the girls are doing the Happy Dance!!! Clara and Lilly are laughing with friends from the city NYC. Lilly has broken another heart and is now getting her flirt on at the Sunset Beach Resort. The energy is contagious as others join in on the Happy Dance. We are on the upstairs patio overlooking the water. Dancing and laughing, hands up in the air and feet swiveling. Where is Mallory? She is missing a great time. Must post lots of pics on Facebook for Mallory to see. She is in France with the family.

Lilly and I are feeling fabulous after our morning of shopping and beauty.  I am loving my new outfit, off one shoulder multi colored dress with matching orange sandals with a gold starfish, Gold hoops and a big cocktail ring.  Lilly is the opposite, long black halter dress, she looks stunning with diamond studs and lots of bangles on her arm. So happy Lilly has a place in Shelter Island, its good to have friends with houses in the Hamptons. As the sunsets, the brilliant colors of the sky are mesmerizing. Boats are anchored off the resort. It has been a glorious day  on the patio. Now time for food. Off to Sweet Tomato’s where the locals go for some Prosecco and Italian.

We settle in at the bar and order mussels, pizza and prosecco. The laughter and great conversation continues.  Love, when you ask for your check and find out it has been taken care of. The very kind gentlemen next to us paid and invited us to join them the next day on their boat. Of course, we accept the invite.

Home after an amazing day! Blessed and grateful!!




Thursday, June 5, 2014

Globe Trotting with Mallory and Clara

Paris, France

Black Dolce & Gabbana fitted dress, Christian Louboutins, french manicure and red pedicure. It’s my (Clara) Birthday dinner at the Buddha Bar. I feel like a princess ascending the massive staircase that takes you down to the candle lit dining room. Mallory once again out does herself planning and executing a memorable event.
It is a large elegant room filled with pretty people enjoying decadent food and drink. Laughter fills the room. I am there with 6 of my closets friends. A few are local Mallory of course and Jacqueline a few are from London, Danielle and Anthony and then there are the one’s who flew in from the states, Lilly and Joey. What a very pleasant surprise. I had no idea that Lilly and Joey would be there. I am a very blessed woman. Champagne is being poured and sushi is arriving at the table. It is an eclectic group and easy to have conversations with adjoining tables. Champagne keeps flowing, pictures are snapping and hours pass. Yes, there are lots of posts on facebook. By the end of the evening we are a table of 16.
Walking to the ladies room is an experience unto itself. It is like walking the runway. Head held high, Big smile and the air of confidence. Women always look better in candlelight. I reapply red lipstick and return to my party!!! I simply love Bubbles lots and lots of bubbles………….

Stepping outside the air smells delightful and the sounds of the city coming to life is magical. We walk arm in arm down the street laughing and embracing the joys of life. 

What an amazing evening!!!


Thursday, May 15, 2014

Globe trotting with Mallory and Clara

After climbing the steps up to Sacre-Coeur we stop at a café in Place de Montmartre. Sipping Kir Royales, laughing and watching people our waiter Alain engages in flirtatious conversation. Never being one to turn down an opportunity to flirt Mallory and I engage. Our stimulating conversation attracts the attention of the gentlemen sitting at the adjacent table. We are speaking both French and English.  As the evening progresses the two men (they do not speak French) invite us to join them for dinner. Mallory and I agree, why not have some fun. Before we leave Alain invites us to lunch the following day. I happily accept the invitation and give him my address and phone number. I will pick you up at 1pm. Looking forward to it.

Off we go in a taxi to a small Greek restaurant in the 4th Arrondissenment. Mallory and I have a plan. We will have dinner and then excuse ourselves to go to the ladies room where we will exit the restaurant and get in a taxi and leave. No harm, no foul.  OOPs the restrooms are the opposite direction of the entrance and we have to walk past our table to get away. So Plan B! we leave the restaurant with the men and get in a taxi. Mallory speaking fluent French tells the young man driving the taxi to drop the men off first and then us….he understands the situation and is agreeable. The men are not to pleased when we get to their location and we stay in the taxi. As the taxi speeds away we begin to laugh about our adventure that evening. The young taxi driver is generously tipped.

The following morning Mallory and I stop for a café. I am sitting with my back to the entrance and Mallory takes a gasp and proceeds to lower her head like she is hiding. Before I can turn around she says…no, don’t turn around. Its them, the guys from last night. They are walking in right now. Oh I hope they don’t see us. Quick, lower your head and stay still. Maybe they won’t notice us.  Every time I try to turn around Mallory says, no don’t.  She is giving me a play by play of their actions. After about 5 minutes she can know longer control herself and starts laughing. The two men were never there at all. She was having fun with me. She really had me going…….we laughed in hysterics, which we did quite often. I love Mallory and our many adventures. Everyday with her is a fun day filled with lots of laughter.  She is a great friend.

Many more adventures to follow so please stay tuned.